In the years leading up to, during, and after the Trump administration, we have seen a tug-of-war over the American identity. So many on the right insist their version of patriotism includes American exceptionalism, imperialism, and inequality, and so many on the left are too burnt out and burdened by America’s sordid history to contest this.
When I tell people I used to live in Norway, I am often asked the same question: “Do you want to go back?” I understand why they ask me that. Norway is consistently ranked as one of the “happiest countries in the world.” Norwegians have socialized healthcare, beautiful nature, crystal clear water, and a government that isn’t actively tearing itself apart on live TV every couple of weeks.
America, in contrast, seems like it can’t measure up. It feels like everywhere we look these days, something is falling apart in this country. Our politicians fight each other on Twitter, then approve oil drilling projects that could ruin our nature preserves. When it feels like we’re taking a step in the right direction, with states like Delaware, Vermont, Kansas, and Colorado electing their first openly transgender state legislators in 2020, we take another step back with bills like Florida’s “Don’t Say Gay,” which restricts educational freedoms.
But I don’t want to turn my back on this country by fleeing to Norway. There are people I love in this country, places I adore. America has amazing art and architecture, food and culture — we have national parks larger than European countries. We are lucky that when we complain about our government, our words are protected. There is still so much good here.
Part of this fracture in our country comes down to disagreements about our national identity — who is “American” and what do they stand for? How can we reconcile a nation that is so heavily divided, and distrustful of each other?
We need a strong, unified national identity in order to move forward as a nation, and we cannot let those who would rather us turn from a democracy to an autocracy, tell us who we are. Reconsidering the American identity as a multi-cultural, inclusive one that stands for justice and peace, is critical to moving this country forward.
The low level of pride for this country is nonpartisan. According to a Gallup poll, Republicans dropped from 76% “extremely proud” to be American in 2019, to 58% in 2022. Democrats increased their pride by a mere four points from 22% in 2019 to 26% in 2022.
The downward trend of patriotic feelings and losing faith in America isn’t helping us propel this country to a more equal and fair state. If you believe that America is, at its core, rotted, why would you ever defend its democracy? At the same time, we have to be realistic about our nation, know its flaws, and work to change it for the better.
There is an important distinction to be made between nationalism and patriotism. Nationalism is the idea that we are superior and separate from other nations — that we supposedly know and are better. Nationalism is what drove us to invade Vietnam, Iran, and Afghanistan. It is a hateful ideology that is used by fascist regimes all over the world.
Patriotism unfortunately gets co-opted by nationalist hate-groups. In the 1980s and ‘90s, the “Patriot Movement,” a conglomeration of right-wing hate groups which believed the U.S. government was illegitimate, encouraged its members to carry out acts of terror, like the Oklahoma City Bombing. In modernity, far-right hate groups like the Proud Boys or conspiracy theorists like the Jan. 6 rioters also use a twisted view of patriotism to rally their members. These people have co-opted the term “patriot” to fit their definition of what an American should be: white.
Patriotism should be about feeling proud of your country’s progress, and wanting it to change for the better. When we let hate groups call themselves patriotic, as they attack our government and innocent people, we let them redefine the word.
It can be hard to feel proud of a country that has a horrible history involving imperialism, colonization, slavery, and subjugation of marginalized people — especially when those who perpetuate similar crimes in the modern day, such as officers shooting unarmed civilians, are rarely brought to justice. But as we look back through history, we can see that America has been dragged towards justice by activists and leaders who knew that the ability to change was one of our best assets. These activists progressing America have often been the very people held down by its oppressive and racist laws.
Martin Luther King, Jr once said, “We shall overcome because the arc of the moral universe is long but it bends toward justice.” He understood that no matter how long it takes, America will progress as long as we fight for what is right. More than ever, it is important for people in places of privilege, like myself, to listen to and advocate for justice and change for marginalized communities.
History is taught as if America is always in the right and the winner. Right now, there is a fight on whether or not students should learn about the history of racism in this country, and the ways we have failed our marginalized communities. Glossing over the bad parts of American history means we cannot learn from our past mistakes and move forward. Additionally, leaving out this history furthers our divisions. People of color shouldn’t have to educate white Americans about the atrocities their ancestors committed.
“This is no time for passive patriotism,” Ben Rhodes, former deputy national security adviser to Obama, wrote in The Atlantic. “American democracy will not survive if Americans lazily assume that enough people will just come to their senses and recognize that it must be saved.” While youth turnout is increasing, only 51% of eligible voters between the ages of 18-24 cast a ballot in the 2020 election. We cannot idly sit by while the future of our country is decided for us.
There is no easy solution that would radically change Americans’ attitudes towards our country overnight. However, encouraging more civic engagement could help. Becoming an active participant in local and state government, voting in elections, and caring for your community — not turning your back on your country and hoping it heals on its own. Blind optimism for America will not help it progress, and neither will giving up. Democracy depends on active participants; autocracy counts on apathy.
This article really resonated; thanks for publishing it.
I wonder if you could expand on the American dream of fleeing to Scandinavia in maybe another article. You touched upon it and clearly could offer a very interesting perspective in depth. It’s a phenomenon that fascinates and confuses me.